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cccccrazy
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Registered: 03-19-2006 Location:
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posted on 11-03-2006 at 00:10 |
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Not a virgin
So I'm 18 and not a virgin...since 5 months ago or so...and me and my bf had sex quite a few times, but now I don't really want to do it anymore. I feel like its all he cares about...and if we are kissing and stuff, he'll always want to go all the way, which I dont. It is kinda a long distance relationship...2 hours...I feel like whenever I go to see him or he comes to see me its just for sex. I feel like a HOLLA BACK GIRL lol...I like him and everything but hold back a lot since I feel like a holla back girl SO WHAT SHOULD I DO
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Gonzalez87
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posted on 11-05-2006 at 02:49 |
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My Idea
The first thing you need to do is sit him down and tell him.
Don't shout or hit him, just talk to him.
Tell him that you feel like an object rather than a partner when you have sex.
Secondly remember this may have ben his first time too.
Just like drinking, porn or driving a car when a guy does it for the first time he feels grown up and wants to do it more and more.
Lastly don't think that he has any right to force you into sex just because you have done it before. He needs to learn to control himself because if you don't agree to sex and he trys to undress you and shag you (rather than make love to you) many women would cry rape.
Cause he is basically raping you if you don't want him entering your body with his dick, tounge, fingers or even sex toys.
But telling him that is the last option, simply because if you start with "I think your trying to rape me" you will destroy his life in all departments if it got out.
So to recap, Remeber it could be his first time and he is exicted about this stage in his life, talk to him, keep your cool and explain you don't always want it and if he still trys to get you into bed just say no I don't want this.
If he still trys it on after hearing that, tell him it's over and if he still trys it on tell him you will report him for rape or sexual harassment if he trys it again.
His reaction will tell you if he is the right man for you.
hope that helps :D
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cccccrazy
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posted on 11-15-2006 at 23:23 |
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thanks
Thanks for the ideas...we kinda talked about it and its not happening as much...i just have to give him more of a straight answer like "no" instead of "nahh"...still feel like the bad guy sometimes but its better. THANKS
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