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My_call
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Registered: 01-23-2008 Location:
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posted on 01-23-2008 at 16:52 |
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3 years and I can't move on
Everyone alright?
I have a problem, Im 20 and there is this girl that I used to talk too 3 years ago in high school and I really liked her, we were close but I sometimes thing she was playing a game with me cos she knew how much I liked her.
Anyways, we haven't talked in a year, we fell out cause I found out she was being two faced and talking to people about me after I had trusted in her as a friend.
Now I have seen her account on bebo, she has a new boyfriend and while I am happy she has someone, I still miss her.
I can't get over her. I just can't
I know that her and her boyfriend when on holiday for new year, I'm guessing they slept together. I'm not upset about that.
She is 19 and he is 20.
I just feel that it should be me.
She is so beauitful and so wonderful, when ever I get close to a woman, I just think to myself "there not as good as this woman I can't get over"
I think if I had dated her in school we would still be together.
More the most part it's not even lust, I just miss her.
I can't trust her, she doesn't respect me but I just miss her so much.
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tLakota
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Registered: 09-20-2006 Location:
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posted on 01-24-2008 at 01:04 |
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DUDE! WAKE UP!!!
This is a classic case of turd polishing. She's a bitch. Okay. The end. Anyone that is two-faced, deceptive, and betrays your trust is not a good person. She obviously didn't love you, and to be hung up on someone like that, no matter how attractive or understanding they are, is not healthy for you and your future relationships. So you need to ask yourself what you miss about her. Is it her company? That can be replaced. Is it her looks? Someone is always prettier than the next person. Is it you? Why would you be attracted to someone like that. Are you a glutton for punishment? Yearning for this bitch's company isn't a good sign. You deserve better. You say that if you went out in high school it would still be together? The simple fact that you never did says a lot. I feel sorry for you. I'm 18 and I had to move away from my boyfriend of 3 years a little while ago, so I know how a loss of love can feel. But I eventually got over it, and our love was mutual. You should try dating, and avoid her type. Recent studies show that a lot of attraction has more to do with physical and biological compatibility rather than personality. But you should avoid people that remind you of her, and focus on the girl that catches your eye and smells nice and get to know her. I hope this speaks to you and has an effect. Love yourself and leave the shit behind.
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