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Savard888
Newbie
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Registered: 06-29-2011 Location:
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posted on 06-29-2011 at 12:26 |
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dating again?
My wife and I have been discussing for the past 2 months about divorce and we still live together. We will be moving apart within the next month or 2 into our own places. we both know we're not going ot get back together at all. I guess i'm trying to move on yet still feel hurt, and not loved, and pushed aside. I really need to know that I'm loved, appreciated, not abandoned, not like a sex toy, I need love. How soon is too soon or soon enough to start dating again? I'm nto looking to date right away but then again, i'm also nto looking to be lonely either.. Not looking for sex either.
Please help.
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chargerx
Junior Member
Posts: 11
Registered: 03-14-2011 Location:
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posted on 07-03-2011 at 13:05 |
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advice
Best advice is to wait for a while. My ex wife left me for a guy while we were still married and they only lasted two months after our divorce! So rebound relationships are a definite no-no. I understand the wanting to feel loved. Go SLOWLY and lay stuff on the line with any girls you find interesting or attractive. Tell them up front you are or will be recently divorced and are not looking for long-term. Of course just don't blurt out I'M DIVORCED! If they can't respect that then forget about them. I have found that most women are ok with divorced men if you are just honest right off the bat about it. It's going to be really tough but focus on yourself for a while. Get into some hobbies and do stuff you haven't had time to while you were married. You will be lonely at times but work thru the grieving process. Women are good at sensing desperation. If you have any other questions let me know and I will give ya my advice!
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