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youngn_confused
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posted on 01-26-2006 at 23:52 |
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does it hurt?
ok I'm still young and I'm a virgin but I'm scared to ever lose it cuz I'm afraid it might hurt so my question is does it hurt to have sex cuz I've heard about how you can tear and stuff like that so can anyone answer my question? please help me cuz I wanna know if I have to be prepared for pain my first time around
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Natrualbeauty
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posted on 01-27-2006 at 00:26 |
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I guess
I think it will hurt your first time around.Every girl that I asked they said it did hurt their first time .May I asked your age??I'm 19 and I am still a virgin.One of the reason I am still a virgin is of the pain.But I don't know for sure if it will hurt real bad because I'm not experience myself.
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youngn_confused
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posted on 01-27-2006 at 00:29 |
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my age
Well I'm 12 going on 13 and I'm really confused about all this stuff.I am kinda afraid to lose it cuz I'm afraid of the pain but I don't know if it's like make you wanna cry pain or just pain that you can bare.
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Natrualbeauty
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posted on 01-27-2006 at 17:09 |
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You shouldn't be thinking about ........
Do you have a boyfriend?Are you thinking about having sex?You shouldn't be your still young you have other things to be thinking about doing then losing your virginty.Everyone body is different so everyone pain is different.
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youngn_confused
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posted on 01-28-2006 at 03:46 |
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I'm not!
Oh you don't have to worry I'm not even thinking about losing my virginity! I would be dead meat if I lost it at this age! I'm sooo not ready for that yet I don't know when I will be but I do know it's definetly not now! I'm actually kinda scared to have sex,my plan is to lose it when I feel I'm ready and I'm sure it's with the right person.Right now I find boys very very cute(I love Ricky Ullman! and joel madden and billy martin lol) but definetly not ready for that.
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22yearguyvirgin
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posted on 01-28-2006 at 20:07 |
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good
It is good that you are not in a rush to loose your virginity. There are far too many young people getting ahead of themselves these days. Your curiousity is natural though. Every thing Ive looked at says that women experience at least some discomfort on their first time. Now that doesnt mean you should fear your first experience. You see some women say that they only felt a little pressure. It is all dependent on a few factors. First of all, every woman's body is different. Some women are "smaller" than others and therefore may experience more pain. Also, how "ready" a woman is plays a part. Finally, finding the right person to be with on your first time is extremely important. Find someone you are comfortable with and want to share this experience with. Make sure that he is gentle and understands what you need.
Please dont forget that the decision about your first time is yours to make. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into it. Also dont get into a hurry to grow up. No matter how old you get dont feel that you should have already had sex. Let the experience happen naturally and you'll be fine.
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youngn_confused
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posted on 01-30-2006 at 02:41 |
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Thanks
that advice really helps.I know I'm not ready to lose it yet I haven't even had my first kiss! Right now the only I do want is a boyfriend and I want to have my first kiss but only two problems 1.I'm only 12 and not allowed to date til I'm 16 I think that's too old cuz by then I'll be half way through my teen years I think it should be atleast 14 and 2.all the boys I know are not worth my time they're immature and dumb I don't like them at all.But when I feel that I'm "ready" I'll try to remember that but I decided not too long ago that I'd wait til I though I was ready and that it's the right person so I hope I'll have the right judgement I think I will cuz I listen to my heart always.
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