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thinker
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posted on 02-04-2006 at 04:17 |
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MY virginity
Right now im not sure what is going on, if I am a virgin or anything! I am with my boyfriend, who had slept with one girl once before we met. Last weekend i decided i was ready to lose my virginity to him. We had a lot of trouble actually having sex; we could not find a position which was comfortable for both of us, and he had trouble staying erect, and i suffered quite a bit of pain and bled quite a lot. He only entered me once and im not sure it even counted as sex because it was very brief! Yesterday we decided to try again, but had the same problems as before. I was very disappointed because I thought that after the first time the blood and pain would finish. He is lovely to me and would never say anything but I feel frustrated because I cannot give him what we both want. I am not sure if I am a virgin because I would not say he had sex, purely that he entered me! I need some advice for positions and things which might make him more turned on and it less painful for me. thanks!
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22yearguyvirgin
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posted on 02-08-2006 at 00:43 |
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virginity
if he enterd you (even if it was not enjoyable or for very long) you are no longer a virgin. It sounds like you may need to try to use some type of lubrication, "KY Jelly". I would say to use a condom (its not clear if you did or not) as it can help reduce the irritation that you feel from rubbing but if he is having problems staying erect a condom may not be that easy to use. It will likely take a few attempts before the experience is totally painless. It will take some time before you learn what you like. Your going to have to try some experimenting to find a good position for the two of you.
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WOWITFEELSGOOD
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posted on 06-28-2007 at 21:52 |
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HOP ON TOP !!!
WELL AT FIRST I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WITH FINDING POSITIONS . BUT I KNOW HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT POSITION WHEN I WAS RIDIN ON TOP OF MY BOYFRIEND ( HE WAS IN ME ) I FOUND A SPOT THAT WAS PLEASURING ME BUT HE COULDN'T FEEL IT AND HE FOUND A SPOT FOR ME BUT IT WASN'T HITTIN AS WELL AS MINES WOULD . MAYBEY YOU NEED TO HOP ON TOP OF HIM AND EASE YOUR WAY ONTO HIM . IT WORKED FOR ME .
p.s. IF YOU DO FIND A POSITION TRY NOT TO GIVE HIM TOO MUCH PLEASURE AND YOU RECIEVE ALL OF THE PAIN BECAUSE TRUST ME .....BESIDES ALL THE BLEADING AND STUFF YOU WILL HAVE PAINS FOR ABOUT A WEEK !!!!!
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WOWITFEELSGOOD
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posted on 06-28-2007 at 21:52 |
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HOP ON TOP !!!
WELL AT FIRST I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WITH FINDING POSITIONS . BUT I KNOW HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT POSITION WHEN I WAS RIDIN ON TOP OF MY BOYFRIEND ( HE WAS IN ME ) I FOUND A SPOT THAT WAS PLEASURING ME BUT HE COULDN'T FEEL IT AND HE FOUND A SPOT FOR ME BUT IT WASN'T HITTIN AS WELL AS MINES WOULD . MAYBEY YOU NEED TO HOP ON TOP OF HIM AND EASE YOUR WAY ONTO HIM . IT WORKED FOR ME .
p.s. IF YOU DO FIND A POSITION TRY NOT TO GIVE HIM TOO MUCH PLEASURE AND YOU RECIEVE ALL OF THE PAIN BECAUSE TRUST ME .....BESIDES ALL THE BLEADING AND STUFF YOU WILL HAVE PAINS FOR ABOUT A WEEK !!!!!
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